I know
what I want
When I bought
my home about 12 years ago, one of the things I went shopping for was a bed, a good
sturdy bed that will stand the test of use and time that I sought advice from my
estate agent where best to go.
It was on
the other side of town, in Amsterdam, so I mounted my bicycle and was outside the
shop in about 25 minutes. The shop owner walked up to me and asked what I wanted
and I told him, I was somewhat immediately profiled and he thought what I needed
was the ordinary box spring variety, I allowed him his spiel before I specifically
told him what I really wanted, it was deeper in the store.
I strode
in and immediately saw what I was looking for, wooden, carved, polished and really
sturdy to the touch, the feel and the hold apart from it being quite heavy – I pointed
at it and immediately he said it was too expensive – maybe it was, but that was
what I wanted.
Means-profiling
He remonstrated
until I snapped back at him, “Who told you I can't pay for it? That is the bed
I want and let’s be done with it.” With that came grudging respect, an offer
to deliver the bed at any time of my convenience into the late evening and the service
I should have had from the moment I showed up as a customer – Courtesy, respect,
friendliness and helpfulness.
What had
happened to me was I was ‘means-profiled’ by reason of some subjective quality,
probably race, in the mind of the shop owner, he had thought – “I have seen many
shoppers come here and this chap cannot afford the best goods I have in my store,
I will not waste my time with him window shopping, I’ll just show him what belongs
to the affordable profile of his type.”
We all
suffer it
I am sure
many of us have been ‘means-profiled’, belittled, patronised and basically disrespected
on the premise of some subjective and prejudicial perception of another and in those
circumstances have had to endure a looming humiliation from people who honestly
think they are doing us some good or as a shop attendant said to Oprah Winfrey in
Zurich recently, “I don’t want to hurt your feelings.”
In the narration Oprah Winfrey gave and one should not have to introduce her,
she was in Switzerland to attend TinaTurner’s wedding when she decided to go shopping without
an entourage or posse. [The Oprah Interview with
CBS ET – The story has since been edited
after I first read it.]
A clear
perception
She walked
into one of the Trois Pomme luxury shops in Zurich on Bahnhofstrasse, probably
with the name Prada Donna and a conversation ensued where she wanted a
particular bag and the shop attendant refused thrice to obtain the bag for her with
a clear statement that it was too expensive.
It is not
that the attendant, did not want to serve Oprah, but the attendant concentrated
on showing Oprah bags she did not want, as Oprah pressed thrice to have a look at
the $40,000 bag before she left the shop having been pitied, sympathised with, belittled
and patronised, with a lovely statement from the attendant, “Oh, I
don’t want to hurt your feelings.”
In fact,
Oprah delivered that line with a mock-Swiss accent, highlighting occasions of subtle
racism that she has encountered as a self-made billionaire, successful and powerful
global media figure who just happens to be African-American.
No, she
didn’t say that
As the backlash
began to grow against the store, then, Zurich and possibly might even engulf Switzerland
and create a seething animosity to any encounter with the Swiss from here on, the
shop owner, Trudie Goetz, so lacking in nuance and perception of the grave situation
that had been triggered, first apologised for the “misunderstanding”
and then palmed it off with, "We don't have any facial recognition here.”
You have
to ask, what can be so misunderstood with a simple request as, “Please can I see
that bag?”? Especially, when that request was made thrice, giving time to exercise
the utmost patience and avoid the need to flare up like a diva that you are probably
in your rights to do, if you needed to.
The one about
facial recognition is beneath contempt, it is lower than a rotten snake’s belly.
Why should a shop have to have face recognition to determine whether a stranger
is of means or a pauper to decide what service they should get?
Strike
off Switzerland?
No, but the
smarter heads in charge of tourism for Zurich and Switzerland are in crisis and damage-limitation overdrive
because the last thing any city that thrives on the rich and tourism needs is this
kind of publicity – not in a million years, the cost will be unquantifiable.
The worst
part of this is, if such rotten treatment can be meted out to a global personality
like Oprah Winfrey, we the lesser personalities who are striving to be popular in
the smallest sphere of influence with might have numbering on just the fingers of
one hand, have no chance.
Now, I have been to Switzerland twice before, to Zurich and Geneva – these are supposed to be global cities of
renown, I had a wonderful time, I met good and friendly people, I loved the place,
I love the lakes, but if this kind of attitude lurks in the underbelly of some of
the people one might encounter, it is easy to keep Switzerland off one’s itinerary
without much effort.
1 comment:
hmmm...this is serious. Racism is still at his height and this is going to affect tourism, especially blacks visiting the country who seems not to deal with the situation squarely.
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