Time and tide
As one grows old with
the passage of that thing that never stops called time, the memories come
and go of things that have gone before.
For me, there is much
else to ponder for my mental capacity to remember and recollect, the recall of
dates and events from the auspicious to the inauspicious that I hopes that this
does not become as ritualistic as it could be defining and debilitating of the
security of reason and the reasonable.
Yet, one must be
reminded of those who have crossed our paths and made significant contributions
of friendship, of love, of joy, of comfort and of much else that gives life true and enduring meaning.
Memories of one
It is in this vein
that I remember a very dear friend, who six years ago died quite peacefully at
home having lost a battle against cancer.
I was called the day
after he died and I was fortunate to see him lain in his bed, in his own home,
dressed very smartly as if preparing for a very formal outing, almost lifelike
but not breathing, his journey, his pains, his labours and his concerns meaning
no more to him, for he had gone to another place.
A goodbye forever
As I stood by his
bed, I wept silently and whispered a goodbye to him, I had to return again to
see him before we buried him five days later on what would have been his 58th
birthday.
Nothing could have
prepared all of us his friends from far and near for his passing, but we all
gathered on that cold Monday morning to celebrate his amazing, giving, loving,
considerate and gregarious life before he was committed to earth.
For each and every
one of us whose life was touched by the grace and favour of Dick van Galen
Last, we remember him fondly, he is sorely missed, but never forgotten.
Adieu Dick, rust goed.
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