Refusing the obvious
Denial is probably
the desire to live a different reality. Presented with the obvious, we find a
delusionary diversion in thought and in deed to create an existence of the
utmost deception in the hope that circumstances might just align.
There is the occasion
where one exhibits reluctance with grudging acceptance, then another is engaged
in persistence with numbing insistence, either way, none can alter the course
of events as life and its decisions are primarily that of the principal
regardless of expectations or prayers.
Defusing the devious
That one was offered
the option of a village girl was quite amusing even as it was deftly declined,
there is a city boy to whom one is betrothed, many traditions sacrificed to realities
that have more relevance for heart and mind.
It is with warmth
though that when in conversation with the dean after the Eucharist yesterday,
the mention of marriage was embraced with easy accommodation of all genders not
presupposing anything and welcoming of the response given. He is marrying him
and whoever is in denial cannot be helped beyond facing the truth of what
life really is.
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