One could not tell
He, I might have said as I wondered
why he was walking in the middle of the lane of a busy road, then as it became
clear, she was wearing heels you would expect to see on those modelling
womenswear, but her top was hardly masculine, probably feminine and never
really coming to terms of whether it should be classed as androgynous left me
more confused that you might be left with the pronoun they.
Yes, they were drawing attention to
themselves in clothes that could not be ignored once seen and a head shorn of
hair quite redolent of male pattern baldness, that drivers in cars contributed
to a needless cacophony of car horns get more people to look in the direction
of the commotion.
When I thought I would see them for
much longer, they disappeared into a whiskey bar and the chatter at the al
fresco tables would have been given to a surmise or two before we all returned
to what we were doing.
It is there to see
Whatever we were doing before a new
distraction came along, body adornment in the form of tattoos that usually were
discreet, but now they are all over the body down on the fingers with all the skin
surfaces covered including on the face, and this is now on the ladies. I catch
myself before I begin to question why, I guess they love and they do it, the
appreciation of beauty by strangers is beside the point.
People do not moderate themselves into conformity if they can help it, and much as a lot is being accepted at face
value and supported by laws to give protections against discrimination, being an
outlier can still expose you to unwelcome ostracism. It would seem our prejudices
are constantly challenged by changing norms and expressions we cannot avoid.
Our streets of education
We observe and document those
observations in memory that what was at first chimeral, with more encounters of
such rarities, we are eased to accepting these things are becoming commonplace.
Usually, we would not indulge and be
inclined to have these situations are self-expression even as an example might
provide guidance, we school ourselves into the knowledge that in all that
diversity of expression with its extremes that we have difficulty
understanding, there is a belonging we all have to share in learning of each other
and becoming better people.
As it seems one pandemic is winding
down, though not going away yet, we are presented with monkeypox and a threat
that it is spreading fast that those of us in a cohort once stigmatised for infectious diseases are once again appearing more susceptible to it. A public announcement
to drop-in by invitation totally failed the plain English test. We just have to
be careful. [MEN:
Monkeypox fears build as number of cases in Greater Manchester rise]
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